Kathy Sinnott
How often do we see heroes wearing insignias or uniforms that identify one’s service in the military or other hero profession? How often do we then congratulate and thank them for their service? For the Gold Star Moms who wear the Gold Star lapel pin, it’s of the utmost importance to approach them differently. Gold Star Mothers are recognized as having a son/daughter killed in action during active duty military service. Their history began during WWI, with the unfortunate distinction of having 1.7M families falling into this category. The label of ‘Gold Star Mother’ is never a title one desires.
I recently had the honor to speak with several Gold Star Moms on the annual Gold Star Mother’s and Family Day, held the last Sunday of September. Some mothers remain in contact with members of their child’s unit, receiving support that may be of help in the healing process. Yet, other moms may not necessarily receive such comfort, showing how difficult such loss is to process. One thing remains constant among Gold Star Mothers, though, and that is their loss is immeasurable—their pain will never dissipate.
So, if you see someone wearing a gold star with a purple background surrounded by laurel leaves, please extend your condolences and perhaps take a few moments to listen to their story. By doing so, we help keep the legacy of their son/daughter alive, which is of major importance as they gave the ultimate sacrifice for us all.